ATTITUDE MATTERS

ATTITUDE MATTERS

When it rains all birds search for shelter but it’s only the eagle that avoids rain by flying above the clouds.

This behaviour of eagles if thought upon actually gives us a lesson that:

“Problems are common for all of us but it’s our ATTITUDE towards them that makes the difference.”

Attitude is the state of mind with which one approach a task, a challenge, a person or life in general. It is how someone behaves towards somebody or something.

The importance of attitude is that it is the basis for everything in our lives. Our attitude determines how we react to adversity and overcome challenges, It also shows our ability to grow & learn and create bonds with others.

Well said by Charles Swindoll;

“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude in life. Attitude, to me is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearances, giftedness, or skill. It can make or break a company, a home . The remarkable thing is that we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for the day. We cannot change our past, we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is attitude – I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you and everyone. We are in charge of our attitudes.”

A strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug. It has the power to make you more happier and healthier. So keep calm because your attitude determines your altitude in life.

“Your ability is what you are capable of doing, Motivation determines what you do, But your attitude determines how well you do it.”


A little less & a little more

A little less & a little more

Let’s try minimizing a few things that in one way or the other trouble us in our lives and instead let’s practice something that will make us a better version of ourselves 🙂

Fear less, Hope more

Hate less, Love more

Take less, Give more

Speak less,Listen more

Judge less, Respect more

Expect less, Prepare more

Complain less, Appreciate more

Demand less,Offer more

Cry less,Smile more

Doubt less,Believe more

Talk less,Listen more

Procastinate less,Work more

Stress less,Smile more

Worry less ,Live more

Suppose less,Understand more

Less Anger,More Patience

Less Revenge,More Justice

Less Debates,More Discussions

Less Greed,More Generousity

Less excuses, More Hardwork

Still I Rise🌅

Still I Rise🌅

Here’s a beautiful poam to tell yourself &  to all those who tries to put you down.

You may write me down in the history, With your bitter, twisted lies,     You may trod me in the very dirt, But still like DUST🌪 , I’ll RISE🌞

Does my sassiness upset you??   Why are you beset with gloom??    ‘Cause I walk like I’ve got oil wells, Pumping in my living room. 

Just like Moon🌙 and like Sun☀️With the certainty of tides🌊 ,     Just like the hopes springing high, Still I’ll RISE 🌞

I’ll  RISE ,   I’ll  RISE ,      I’ll RISE …..

Did you want to see me broken💔Bowed head and lowered eyes? Shoulders falling down like teardrops,😭😢 Weakened by my soulful cries🥺

Does my haughtiness offend you, Don’t you take it awful hard, ‘Cause I laugh it like I’ve gold mines, Digging in my own backyard.

You may shoot me with ur words, You may cut me with your eyes,  You may kill me with your hatefulness👿 But still like AIR, I’ll RISE🌞

I’ll  RISE ,  I’ll  RISE ,      I’ll RISE ….

Does my sassiness upset you??  Does it come as a surprise. That I dance💃 like I’ve got Diamonds💎, At the meeting of my thighs.

Out of the huts 🏠 of history’s shame,

I RISE🌄

Up from a past that’s rooted in pain,

I RISE🌄

I’m a black ocean, leaping & wide,  Welling & Swelling,   I bear in the tide🌊

Leaving behind nights of terror and fear,

I RISE 🌄

Into a day break that’s wondrously   clear,

I RISE🌄

Bringing the gift🎁 that my ancestors gave, I’m the dream and the hope of the world.

I RISE, I RISE,I RISE🌄

– Maya Angelou

Find your WHY ??

Find your WHY ??

There are two very important days in any person’s life:

  1. The day when we were born
  2. The day we realize WHY

The first day is totally beyond our powers. It is the day to express our gratitude for everything that we have in our life.While the second one is totally left for us to discover.This is the most important day of our life and in fact it is the defining moment of our being in this beautiful world. It is the day when we find out the purpose of our life and I personally believe that the purpose of our life is actually an incredible alarm clock and a life long motivator.

It WAKES US ,MAKES US and TAKES US going everytime whenever the tough gets going.


Many people just keep on wandering in search of motivation inspite of realizing the fact that real motivation comes from within.When you do something you don’t care about or you don’t like doing, it gives you stress but when you discover your WHY and do what you love, this gives you the best feeling.The feeling of satisfaction,the feeling of fulfillment and most importantly it gives genuine happiness.The happiness that every single person deserves in their life. The happiness that is worth you.

The best part of finding your WHY is that you really don’t need to find it out because it’s that treasure that’s already present in everyone of us.All we need to do is to have the courage to follow our heart and our intuitions because somewhere and somehow they really know who we are and what we truly want to become.Also don’t let the noise of others opinions drown out your own inner voice.Trust your own judgements and gut instincts because even if you try and fail, atleast you can move on with clarity instead of questions.

It’s better to try and know than not to try and always wonder.

For pe∆ceful living:-)

For pe∆ceful living:-)

Always Do your Best and Leave the Rest

Why does this happen with me?
What’s my fault?
Why only me?

These are the thoughts that comes to our mind when life does not goes the way we want it to be and our desires are not fulfilled.Very soon the negative thoughts find their way into our mind and we start feeling strucked and stressed. When the things are favourable these feelings seldom occur.

People always feel that life is a game of luck-thousands of people spend money on buying lottery tickets, but only a few are rewarded. Pleasant and unpleasant things happen to all of us in our daily practises and relationships – that’s the nature of life.

But why is it all about luck only?? An infamous dictator, who was instrumental in killing thousands of innocent people believed that “hard luck lines can be changed with a knife’s edge” You’d also often hear people say things like – “यह तो पिछले जन्म के कर्मों का फल हैं (This is a result of what you did in your past life)” and we too give in and believe that what ever is happening is due to destiny and may be the fault is in our stars only ; But we forget what nobleman Cassius says to Brutus in the Act 1,Scene 2 of Shakespeare’s play Julius Caesar – “The fault ,dear Brutus, is not in our stars but in ourselves that we are underlings.”

So here’s something to remember- the future is not in our hands,only god knows about it. Does that mean we keep fretting about what may happen??? No,we should not. Whatever the situation be, we should just do the best that we can and then leave the rest.

This is even well explained in our hindu mythologies,as said in the Bhagavad Gita; कर्म करो, फल की चिंता मत रखो ( Do your duty without thinking about results)

अर्थात-

Another example to this is a very beautiful and profound sanskrit term that is found in the ancient texts, scriptures and philosophy . This word is Vairagya ( वैराग्य) and this word in itself has a deep meaning to offer even in this era. Vairagya in simple sense means deattachment, and we all too need to have a sense of deattachment . Deattachment not from what we are doing{our work or actions} but from the outcome of our actions, which is ultimately not in our hands. There is always a certain way with which things happen and they will take their own time.

So we must focus on what is in our hands or what we can do and that is work & once you have done your 100%; you have given everything that you think you can,without any regrets.Once you have done your best & you know this is the best that I could have done, after that you must be a little deattached from your results because if somehow the results are not in your favour, you must not give up trying for the next time because till when ,if your efforts are 100%, till when will you not succeed.

So for your inner peace,Do your best and Leave the rest. Let this be your inner thought.